"Your Dialogue Sucks," he said.

Last night I met with my writing group for the second time, with actual submissions for feedback. My group members read and commented on the prologue to my novel. While I was expecting some feedback on the storyline, I did not expect the harsh words I received. This is not to say that I was offended by the feedback, merely that when other groups have commented on my work previously they may have been a bit softer in their delivery of opinions. Last night, one member said, and I quote, “Your dialogue sucks.” Given that I realize my dialogue does need some work, it was a little jarring to hear this said in such a harsh way. This type of feedback will take some getting used to.

Although I could look at the comment about my dialogue and say, “Why did I think I could be a writer?” but I would rather see the group member’s words as encouragement to improve my work. As I’ve heard about the industry, my skin is going to have to thicken considerably when it comes time to submit my work for publication (though this won’t happen for some time). Past groups I have been a part of may have been too easy on my work, leaving me wondering what was REALLY wrong with my writing that needed improvement. So, a little harshness and brutal honesty has been a long time coming, and I think it may be what I need at this point. We meet again next week. At least I know what to expect from the group now.  Now I may prepare accordingly.